40s: Navigate Transition
40s: Navigate Transition
Achieving Financial Security As A Solo Parent By Choice
by The Gloss
Your 40s can be a defining decade. It’s a decade when big decisions often collide with big emotions. Whether you’re navigating parenthood, career progression, or major life changes, the financial side can feel overwhelming, especially when you’re doing it on your own. At 44, our client Eve* stepped into motherhood solo, after years of determined effort and major financial investment in fertility treatment. Like so many people in mid life, she found herself balancing her dreams for her child with the practical realities of planning and budgeting the future. She found that with the right support and a clear financial plan, even the most demanding decade of life can become a foundation for long term stability and confidence.
In her own words: the financial challenge
In 2023, I welcomed my little girl and became a solo mother by choice. It took three years to conceive her, and I ended up spending in the region of €40,000 to realise my dream of becoming a mother. Having spent a significant portion of my savings on the fertility treatment, I now need to plan for our future.
With this in mind, I’m considering moving closer to my parents to give my daughter the opportunity to attend a good school and have the support we need. Such a move will result in higher mortgage repayments, but I believe it will be worth it. I need a financial plan to help me manage my finances during this relocation and as I navigate life as a solo mum by choice. My daughter is solely reliant on me and so I want to ensure she will be financially secure in the future.
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Eve, 44
Mum to a three-year-old child and project manager
The financial situation
The financial challenges of fertility treatments and choosing to become a solo parent are rarely discussed. In reality, the financial strain on a single person who wants to become a parent alone is greater than for those in couples – and with an increasing number of women choosing to enter solo motherhood today, it’s crucial to proactively plan for your financial future. Eve is a great example of this.
Dublin-based Eve has a stable career that delivers an income of €85,000 per year. Having spent €40,000 on fertility treatments, she now holds a savings plan valued at around €100,000 and has invested in other funds that are valued at about €25,000.
Eve’s current home is valued at €400,000, with a remaining mortgage of €150,000. She plans to sell this home, pay off the mortgage and use the remaining equity as a down payment for a new house, close to where her parents live. However, as she is looking at properties priced at around €700,000, after factoring in her personal cash savings this will mean a new mortgage of between €350,000 and €395,000 and, therefore, higher mortgage repayments.
What’s more, Eve actively contributes to her pension scheme, demonstrating a proactive focus on her future. She has an occupational pension valued at €250,000 and she expects to receive full state pension. Her desired retirement age is 65. Meanwhile, to safeguard against any unexpected life events, Eve has life insurance that would provide a benefit of €200,000 to her estate and critical illness cover that would provide a lump sum of €50,000 tax-free to her if seriously ill.
Goodbody’s advice
Our recommendations for Eve to better manage her finances during this relocation, and ensure financial security for her daughter’s future, are focussed on three key areas:
1. Building up an emergency pot: following her relocation, Eve will have a tight budget once she deducts a higher mortgage repayment and childcare costs to pay for bills, groceries, household expenses and so on. With this in mind, we would encourage Eve to start building up an emergency pot before she moves to cover life’s unexpected costs. We also asked Eve to determine her entitlement to mortgage interest tax relief on her previous mortgage, single person child carer credit and we also asked her to consider whether she claimed tax relief on her fertility treatment as this may produce an income tax refund for her of €8,000 (€40,000 fertility treatment cost x 20 per cent tax refund rate).
2. Making investments work harder: Eve has investments and pensions. We conducted a risk assessment which showed Eve has a high-risk tolerance. So, it’s important to ensure that all of her investments to date are aligned with her overall risk tolerance and future goals. Her future home will become her biggest investment and she wants to make this work hard for her by renting out a room. This would be especially helpful with the increased mortgage payments and rising costs of childcare. Ideally, Eve would plan to keep this rental income within the tax-free threshold under the Rent-a-Room Scheme, which currently sits at €14,000 per annum. We estimate that Eve could earn approximately €800 per month tax-free by renting a double bedroom in her new location. Any extra money earned could also be reinvested or put in a high-yield savings account. We also recommended that Eve keep her cashflow and investments under review.
3. Securing a future for Eve and her daughter: having assessed Eve’s current cash flow in detail, she is in a good position to retire at 65 and will have enough to live on into her 90s. We also explored a scenario if Eve retired five years early at age 60, but it left her with a diminished spending capacity and a shortfall in income at age 88. Renting a room out in her new house, even just for five years, would increase her income in retirement by €3,000 a year. Looking at her current pension contributions, without making any changes Eve will have a pension fund of €1,600,000 when she retires at age 65. Eve’s legacy net worth, which illustrates all of the assets that would materialise in the event of her death (including insurance and death in service cover) would be €900,000. As the sole beneficiary, her daughter would be entitled to the parent to child tax-free threshold for gift and inheritance tax, but she would be required to pay 33 per cent tax on an amount above this threshold. Taking the current threshold of €335,000 and Eve’s legacy net worth, this could result in a tax bill in the region of €186,000. However, in time, Eve can explore estate planning ideas to manage this tax liability for her daughter and Eve’s own tax liability should she inherit from her parents, but in the short-term Eve should draft her will and set up an Enduring Power of Attorney. It’s likely that if anything were to happen to Eve tomorrow, her daughter would inherit the home she resides in tax-free. There should be no to minimal tax to pay on the remaining assets that her daughter would inherit. However, as Eve’s estate grows in value we recommended keeping inheritance tax under review, such that her daughter would not have a large tax bill to pay. In time, Eve could consider setting up a Section 72 or Section 73 policy for her daughter – the proceeds of a Section 72 policy are tax-free if used to settle an inheritance tax bill and the same applies to a Section 73 policy if used to pay gift tax.
A note on protection and key insurances
We suggested that Eve increase her life cover to adequately provide for her daughter should something happen to her. The increased cover is relatively inexpensive on a monthly basis and would not have a material impact on her cashflow. We also suggested that she look at getting the best mortgage protection cover for her new mortgage and ensure that she has a basic level of health insurance in place for her and her daughter.
A final thought…
At Goodbody, we understand the importance of openly discussing the financial strain associated with fertility treatment and solo parenthood, and we encourage those pursuing or currently navigating solo parenthood to reach out to their financial advisor should they need any support.
For Eve, her story demonstrates that being proactive in your approach to your financial situation pays off. Having made some small adjustments, she can now be confident that her daughter’s financial future is secure.
If you’re considering starting a family or already parenting, (solo or otherwise), now is the time to put strong financial pillars in place. In your 40s, your responsibilities grow, but so does your power to shape the future. You don’t need to navigate that journey alone – contact [email protected] for expert financial advice.
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